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The love in you is bigger than the addiction in you
Nothing in you is greater than the love in you. It’s just that you’ve let the love live so small. Love, in all its wisdom, is silently awaiting your humble return. You are tortured with guilt. Until...
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Protected: I refuse to blame you—I am responsible for me
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Can Christmas be a Frame of Mind?
Image courtesy of Tina Phillips at FreeDigitalPhotos.net Early in my recovery the very mention of Christmas was a trigger. I got sober in March. How in the heck was I going to make until Christmas...
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What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Everything. I spent most of my years searching for love. It was those few missing pieces from the 1000 piece puzzle. I army crawled the carpet, sifted the vacuum bag—twice. The puzzle was eventually...
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The Altar of Recovery
The one consistent action that alcoholics in recovery (not to be confused with in abstinence) perform is putting all their troubles on the ‘table’. This is a physical or metaphysical place depending on...
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I am [blank]
Last week’s post comment, via ByeByeBeer, spurred this post on the Pendulum. The Pendulum is a staple in my toolbox. When I first got sober I was under the illusion that I was going to actually rid...
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What would I be thinking about if I wasn’t so busy thinking about my needs?
As a coach by occupation and a spiritual seeker by nature I find my world is riddled with more questions than answers. Even when I find an answer it begets more questions. I am learning to acquiesce to...
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Conscious is the BEST high I have ever known
My last September Sunday to squeeze in a post. In the spirit of keeping my “monthly post” commitment I’m getting this up here today. It’s a little less polished than I prefer, but—oh well. Personal...
View ArticleEverything turns out good in the end. And if it’s not good, it’s not the end.
I have plenty of days when I am not up for “the journey.” I want the reward—now. It’s really that simple. I banter with self, dramatically exalting that, I’m too… exhausted from feeling my feelings...
View ArticleThe love in you is bigger than the addiction in you
Nothing in you is greater than the love in you. It’s just that you’ve let the love live so small. Love, in all its wisdom, is silently awaiting your humble return. You are tortured with guilt. Until...
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1000 Conversations
Somedays I think the conversations will never end. Who would have thought I would ever be tired of talking? Guess what? I am. Apparently, I am feeling tired of listening, too. I am having yet another...
View ArticleAm I a Sober Blogger Anymore?
After a long blogging hiatus, I am excited to be tapping away on thoughts that are closer to my heart. I started the Sober Identity blog in 2012. I was eager to share my journey with 12-step recovery,...
View ArticleThe Myth of 12-Step or Bust
For starters, I am a product of the 12-step model—it’s brilliant. But it’s not for everyone. We can stop making people feel bad because they don’t prefer it or aren’t doing it the way we think they...
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